What is a Host Family?
A host family is a household that welcomes an au pair into their home and daily life. In return for accommodation and meals, the host family receives help with childcare and light domestic duties. Host families can vary widely in size, background, and lifestyle, but they all share one thing: the desire to open their home to a young person from another country and engage in cultural exchange.

Responsibilities of a Host Family
– Provide the au pair with a private room, full board (meals), and weekly time off
– Offer a welcoming and respectful environment
– Set clear expectations about tasks and schedules
– Pay pocket money in accordance with national guidelines
– Help the au pair integrate into the community, encourage social and language learning opportunities
– Treat the au pair as a temporary family member, not hired staff
– The relationship is meant to be mutual and respectful, with both parties benefiting from the cultural and personal exchange.

How the Relationship Works
An au pair helps care for children, plays with them, takes them to school or activities, and may assist with light household chores like tidying up play areas or preparing simple meals. In return, the host family provides the au pair with the safety and comfort of a home abroad, along with the opportunity to experience life in a different country.

A successful au pair/host family relationship is based on
– Communication
– Clear expectations
– Respect for cultural differences
– Fair treatment

Is Hosting or Becoming an Au Pair Right for You?
Whether you’re a young adult dreaming of travel and cultural learning, or a family looking for flexible childcare and enriching cultural connection, the au pair program offers a unique and rewarding experience. At Active Au Pair International, we connect motivated au pairs with welcoming host families all around the world—safely, transparently, and with full support. Explore our platform to learn more, create a profile, and take the first step toward an unforgettable journey.