What Is an Au Pair?
An au pair is a young person – usually between the ages of 18 and 30 – who travels to a foreign country to live with a host family in exchange for room, board, and a small allowance – Pocket Money. The term “au pair” comes from French, meaning “on par” or “equal to,” highlighting the idea that an au pair is meant to be treated as a temporary member of the host family, not as a traditional employee or nanny.

Key characteristics of an Au Pair
– Typically provides childcare and may help with light household tasks
– Lives in the family’s home and participates in daily life
– Receives free accommodation and meals
– Earns a stipend or pocket money, not a full salary
– Usually stays between 6 and 12 months
– Engages in cultural exchange (e.g., learning the local language, attending courses, exploring the culture)
– Must meet visa or legal requirements set by the host country
– The goal is not only to assist the host family, but also to provide the au pair with the chance to experience a new culture.

How the Relationship Works
An au pair helps care for children, plays with them, takes them to school or activities, and may assist with light household chores like tidying up play areas or preparing simple meals. In return, the host family provides the au pair with the safety and comfort of a home abroad, along with the opportunity to experience life in a different country.

A successful au pair/host family relationship is based on
– Communication
– Clear expectations
– Respect for cultural differences
– Fair treatment

Is Hosting or Becoming an Au Pair Right for You?
Whether you’re a young adult dreaming of travel and cultural learning, or a family looking for flexible childcare and enriching cultural connection, the au pair program offers a unique and rewarding experience. At Active Au Pair International, we connect motivated au pairs with welcoming host families all around the world—safely, transparently, and with full support. Explore our platform to learn more, create a profile, and take the first step toward an unforgettable journey.